Ep. #80 The Hidden Meanings in Relationships w/ Deborah Lukovich, Ph.D

Deborah Lukovich, Ph.D

Deborah Lukovich holds a PhD in Depth Psychology which focuses on understanding the nature of the unconscious. She is a coach, author, blogger, and podcaster where she offers insights and teachings to help people explore the deeper meaning of life through stories, conversation, and education. 

Deborah is back to discuss her latest framework for understanding relationships from a depth psychology perspective using the 3 P’s: Purpose, Projection, Permanence.

“These three words capture every aspect of relationship between all human beings, but they just play out more dramatically in those of a romantic nature.”

Looking at relationship dynamics and interactions through the lens of purpose, projection, and permanence provide a deep way of understanding what is really going on and together they can work towards a deeper connection, growth, and fulfillment. 

In this episode, Deb and Shane discuss the hidden purpose and deeper meaning of relationships, how projection largely determines the way we relate to each other, and how clinging to the idea of permanence can be destructive. 

“We often don’t discover the deeper purpose of a relationship until after one has ended. Or if we’re lucky, we get a little glimpse when we have the humility to explore a conflict or dissatisfaction rather than avoid it. It can feel mind blowing to discover this ulterior motive that has been hiding from the ego, which thinks it knows exactly why we do what we do.” 

Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening? 5 Steps to Uncovering Your Hidden Purpose

Has something in your life fallen apart? Do you crave more meaning and purpose? Maybe you’re struggling with divorce, addiction, job loss, or depression, or just curious about a recurring dream or odd coincidences that keep showing up. These are all ways your Soul reveals clues about your deepest desires.

In her book, Your Soul is Talking: Are You Listening? author and coach Deborah Lukovich, wants to get you excited about exploring the most important final frontier—your inner world. The Soul speaks through dreams, symbols, meaningful coincidences, relationships, films, and even depression and injuries. This book teaches you the language of the unconscious required to decode its messages.

Dr. Lukovich writes through the lens of her personal experience of midlife unraveling, and her willingness to share awkward experiences will empower you to explore your own. Conversational instruction is sprinkled with humor as she guides you to learn and apply practical approaches to tapping into the wisdom of your unconscious.

Deborah’s Dose of Depth Podcast:

Chapter 24 – More on Psychological/Personality Type – from my book, Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening? Dose of Depth

In this episode, I continue reading from my book, Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening? 5 Steps to Uncovering Your Hidden Purpose. In this chapter, I’ll be reading Chapter 22: What Movie Are You Living? I encourage you to go deeper than anyone has likely taken you into your psychological type. If you still haven’t taken the inventory and gotten your four letters – mine are INFJ – go to http://www.16personalities.com. This chapter offers three reasons for you to go deeper, especially into your blind spots, the functions that are in your shadow and come out during times of stress or conflict. One last thing I think you’ll find interesting is research about the connection between psychological type and spirituality. So, let’s get started . . .  Deborah Lukovich, PhDP.S. Check out my work at http://www.deborahlukovich.com, where you can also subscribe to receive notifications of all kinds of FREE content. Check out my new book, Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening? 5 Steps to Uncovering Your Hidden Purpose. You can now buy it on http://www.bookshop.org if you're looking for an alternative to you know who (Amazon).Follow me on Instagram @dlukovich engage with 3,000+ followers on Twitter @deblukovich or become a friend on Facebook. Check out Soul Talk 101, a series of mini-lessons on how to explore your unconscious offered through my YouTube Channel. #meyersbriggs #psychologicaltype #personalitytype #personality #strengths #weaknesses #archetype #archetypalpsychology  #personalunconscious #shadow #collectiveunconscious #collectiveshadow #extremism #conspiracy #violence #collectivetrauma #selfreflection #psyche #soul #activeimagination #CGJung #Jungian #depthpsychology #wounds #Jung #meaning #purpose #personaldevelopment #unconscious  #therapy #coaching #depthpsychologycoach #midlife #newbook #relationships #spirituality #selflove #anxiety #transformation #relationships
  1. Chapter 24 – More on Psychological/Personality Type – from my book, Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening?
  2. Staying Committed to Self When You're in Relationship: A Conversation with Dr. Joli Hamilton, Relationship Coach, Author & TEDx Speaker
  3. Chapter 23 – What Movie Are You Living? – from my new book, Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening?
  4. Chapter 22 – The Archetype Behind Your Complex – from my new book, Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening?
  5. Chapter 21 – Personal Shadow: Projection – from my new book Your Soul is Talking. Are You Listening?

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